Every guy and every sane girl should agree with me on this. We've all had moments with them in one way or another. You go out with one and then you find out she's a self-centered bitch. For the luckier (or unluckier) folks, there was this one girl you knew who always had this idea that she had to stand out of the proverbial crowd since she had the dumbass idea that she had to be 'different from everyone’ (The hypocrisy about standing out is that they seem to love it when people follow their trend like a fad.) That kind of attitude is easy to spot in a girl, whether she’s just being a loudmouth or she's always making a point by dressing differently from the other girls. You see it, you stay away. You try to confront it - you'll find out that these girls consider themselves to be intelligent. They're not - they'll just argue against you illogically.
I figured these desires to be the queen of the universe and the obscure girl die out in middle school. I'm now in college and they're still here. They walk around as if they don't know about their immature problem. They're still just as easy to point out too, without you even having to talk to them. You see, they tend to be the most physically attractive and they're almost always around like-minded girls or jockish guys (this also explains the reason why most girls who are very sexually attractive have next to no personality whatsoever). The fact that I see this now, even among the upperclassmen, shows me that some people may never grow up. They know that they’re good-looking, and they know they can get anyone shallow enough to like them only for their bodies. The girls believe they can get whatever they want, which is why they’re commonly stereotyped as attention whores. Hell, it may as well be the truth. Here’s a picture of one from a public internet profile that I altered:
The best girls are the down to earth ones…the TRUE down to earth ones. Yeah, stuck up girls will even say that they’re down to earth just to get attention. I’ll be honest- I wrote this entire blog entry just to describe the kind of girl a friend of mine isn’t like. She’s quite feminine, yet unassuming, but she doesn’t walk on airs and only does fancy things for fun. She’s very fun to talk to and is extremely knowledgeable and has an actual personality that’s unique to her (And no, she doesn’t force it to be unique like certain girls tend to do). She’s chill. Chill girls>>>all.
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As the wise girl from "Gossip Girls" once said in ironic hypocrisy, "lifeguards are like kleenex, use and throw away!" Not knowing that attention whores like herself are truly the ones who fulfill the reincarnation as a kleenex. Nevertheless, old creepy Gandalf approves of these promiscuous pictures.
Wasn't Gandalf homosexual? >_>
I would like to start by saying this Mr. Angry Black Man, just because you are out of high school and in a new sphere of “sophisticates”, it does not mean that inept people disappear. It does not mean that any type of person will disappear. No matter where you are, school, work, out
in public, there will be people that you do not like or get along with but the key is to learn how to get along with them…or at least ignore them.
These airheaded splendors you so fervently dislike will eternally haunt your life. They lack personalities because their beauty allows them too. Such as Paris Hilton. Although a complete idiot with phrases like “That’s hot!” people cannot stop loving her because she is beautiful. Such as in January of 2006 Paris was driving home in her new Bentley only to get stranded on the streets of Beverly Hills because her car ran out of gas. Rather than looking for help she sat in her car flipping through a scrapbook until a kind-hearted paparazzi offered to fetch her some petroleum. A sweet wave and she was off on another escapade. (I’m sure this gentleman, yes it was a man, bragged about this act of servitude for months!) Although I do not think this holds true for all attractive women (I would say about 90% yes) I have noticed that it is also a trend among guys. Countless times I have met very good looking guys, I try to have a conversation with them but all that comes out of it is my conclusion that he is just another pompous ass. So do not think that you are alone in this world of annoyance.
However, something else you mentioned were the “attention whores”. I think it is important to see a difference between these two creatures. Although it is possible for a hybrid to occur, such bimbo girls normally fit in one of the two homogenous categories. I say this because girls that are naturally beautiful don’t need to fight for attention. Although they may have outbursts of ditziness or a drunken table dance, for the most part people give them the attention they want. It is girls like in your two pictures that are the attention whores. They lack that extra UMPH, so they use their sexuality to get what they want.
So love it or hate it Mr. Grouch, it’s not going away.
OH and for whoever quoted Gossip Girls, you are fabulous! If you enjoy juicy recaps and sassy commentaries of the show check out my blog www.gosgirl.blogspot.com.
xoxo
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Attention Whores! Yes, some girls definitely deserve this title(well lets not limit it to girls, some guys are the same way), and some even claim it proudly. But what can you do? The only thing that writing an entire blog about these kinds of people does, is give them even more attention, which is exactly what they want. Personally I really don't care that much, there are other people in the world who (at least in my opinion) do lots of worse things than act in a way that classifies them as attention whores. If I'm going to take my time to hate on someone, the situation is going to have to be pretty serious. As in someone is doing something to harm myself or those I think kindly of. Otherwise I don't give a damn. Don't sweat the small stuff. If you don't mind it don't matter.
Yes I do agree that there are people like that whether it is middle school, high school, college or even after that. But one thing is that it is not just girls, guys are the same way. It’s all about the type of person they are and if like you said they are so easy to spot and pick out, then just avoid them who cares how great they think they are, and even if people did care why should you? You know you don’t like those types of people so don’t waste your time hating on them. There are better things to do and even better people to hate on than simple stuck up losers that think they can do whatever they want to. So to sum it all up don’t give any more attention to these types of people, don’t hate on them on blogs or to your friends or to anyone else, because that just gives them more reasons to be obnoxious and annoying. Leave them alone and let them figure out for themselves that in reality no one likes them. Because eventually they will figure it out.
I would definitely agree your opinions about attention whores and the like. What's worse is that they are constantly gratified by large amounts of attention on the internet and in the media (people like Paris Hilton, etc.)
Your blog post reminds me of so many different Southpark episodes that I can't think of a single one to name, but there are a lot that cover this topic. What's kind of ironic is that despite the general stupidity and inappropriateness of the show its lessons (You know, I've learned something today...) are usually pretty good ones.
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